Saturday, August 18, 2012

Blessings in Bolivia Part Two


Am I the only one who gets seriously grumpy on his way to church? I had arrived in Potosí at about 5:00 am and crashed to sleep in my bed at the hostel. It was Sunday morning and I really wanted to experience a Bolivian church service, so I set my alarm for 8:30. That should allow enough time to get a quick shower, gobble a hunk of bread with butter and jelly, gulp some coffee, and find a church, right?



Searching for a church like I was in a casino, making random bets on this street then that, I was still wandering around the city at 9:45 – and I was frustrated. Why did I think this was going to be easy? Potosí has many churches, but each one I had discovered so far was Catholic and closed. Grrr! Standing once more before a pair of massive doors bolted shut, I complained to God, “Lord, do You not see that I am trying to go to church today? I woke up without enough sleep because I want to honor Your day and find some fellowship, but I can't do that if I can't find a church! May I have some help, please?”

Opening my eyes, I turned around to see a man carrying a Bible under his arm. “Hey!” I shouted. Startled, he stopped and looked at me, eyes wide. In stammering Spanish I mentioned his Bible, asked him if he was going to church, and if he would be willing to take me along. He agreed, and hustling to keep up with him, we marched away from the church, around a corner, and down a big set of stairs.

Soon I heard music – singing – church! The man gestured that his church was farther along, up the hill, in the distance. Since we were at 14,500' above sea level, however, and I was out of breath following him down stairs, I begged off as politely as possible and thanked him for taking me as far as he had. He smiled and hurried away. I stepped into the church and slipped in the back completely unnoticed.

Oops! Telling a story about church, I shouldn't lie! Head and shoulders above the tallest person, white, hairy, and maybe even smelly, of course I attracted a bit of attention. After one more song, it was time for the visitors to come up to the front and introduce themselves. It wasn't a big church, maybe fifty people, but there were ten or twelve visitors. I didn't catch everything that everyone said, but when my turn came, I introduced myself the way I always do in Spanish speaking countries. They all laughed, which I love, and that's why I always introduce myself the same way. Here's what I think I'm saying:

“My name in English is Jake, but in Spanish I like to be called Hah-kay, Hah-kay Mah-tay.” (The letter “j” in Spanish is pronounced like the “h” in help, the “a” like the “a” in father, and “ke” together like “kay.”) The funny thing about Hah-kay Mah-tay (actually spelled jaque mate) in Spanish is that it means “check mate,” as in a game of chess. I'm not sure if everyone laughs because they think that someone calling himself “Check Mate” is clever or ludicrous, but a laugh is a laugh for me. In my introduction, I also told them that I sponsored a little boy here in the city through Compassion and had come to visit him on his birthday.

From what I understood of the sermon, the preacher was spot-on about the importance of godly masculinity and what the Bible says it looks like to be a good husband and father. Teacher, leader, not harsh or abusive, but loving, consistent, strong, self-sacrificing for his wife, working hard to provide for his family, and most importantly, faithful in his own relationship with God through prayer, Bible study and church attendance. Wow, cool. I would attend this church if I lived in Potosí!

As the service ended, I was hungry. Before I could leave, I think I was hugged by every person in the church. I figured my odds of getting invited to lunch were pretty good, so when the last person hugged me and still no one had invited me to lunch, I was a bit put out. Really? Dang! I'm hungry! I looked around the church one last time, a questioning, searching look on my face, and reluctantly took big, slow steps to the exit.

So began another roulette type exploration of a different part of the city in search of food and adventure. I wandered toward Cerro Rico, but then back tracked as the city petered out. I spied a tower in the distance on top of a lump of a hill and figured I might at least see something neat from the top.



In about twenty minutes I was at the base of the tower, but the doors were locked shut and it even looked abandoned. The hill itself did provide good panoramic views of the city, so I took a bunch of pictures and then sat down to think about what to do next. I ate a granola bar.



While I sat, a few cars arrived at the small parking lot at the base of the tower, and I recognized the people getting out of their cars. I overheard a little girl say, “Jaque Mate.” I turned and smiled – I had just seen them at the church. A few more people from church arrived, and dropping a big fat hint, I asked them if they knew a place in the city where I could find lunch. Here's the answer I understood them to give, “Oh, it's very hard to find lunch in the city on Sunday afternoon.” Sweet. Awesome. Great. Just the answer I was hoping I'd get. Doggone it, anyway.

So I prayed again, “Lord, it seems like there might be a pretty cool connection with this group, but I'm getting hungry. If You would like to bring something about between us, please do it. If not, I'm going to go look for some food. Thank You, Amen.”

I stood up and walked across the driveway to take one last picture of a flower before resuming my shot-in-the-dark search for chow.



It was then that Christian approached me and asked about my camera. “Is that an 18 megapixel camera?” “No, it's an 18X zoom camera, only 10 megapixels.” He had one that was 12 megapixels. We chatted about our cameras for a bit, and then someone called our names – hey, come on, the doors have opened, let's go get lunch!

The tower was a restaurant with a view! The restaurant revolved like the Space Needle. Over the course of an hour, we saw the complete panorama available from the tower – farout! The food was good and the company was great. It turns out there were so many visitors at the church because it was a family reunion. A few people had been living in Spain and had come back to Potosí to visit relatives. Just about the whole church was there for lunch, and they put me at the foot of the table. As if talking with them and getting to know them wasn't enough – they bought my lunch! We left the tower and drove to another place for desert – again they treated. Maybe when I go back, I can return the favor?



Wow, thank You Lord for blessing me so abundantly! This Bolivia is turning out to be a pretty great place. The people are so friendly! Two meals purchased for me already? What more might this trip have in store?

Before leaving Potosí, I was blessed again, very deeply humbled by another demonstration of remarkable generosity. In the coming days I was also to learn what is meant by “blockades.”

Stay tuned!  

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Sheep or Goat?


Things to do in Bolivia: #1 – Ride down the World's Most Dangerous Road – the Road of Death!

Wow! Say no more! Sign me up! I booked my trip with Gravity Tours and met at the coffee shop in La Paz early in the morning. Brits, Danes, Yanks, Germans, Aussies, Kiwis, and a Paddy named Paddy – our tour guide – climbed into the bus for our initial ascent. 12,500' is just not high enough to start the ride, you see. We needed some serious elevation!



One by one, around the bus we went, stating our name, where we were from, why we were in Bolivia, where we had been, and where we were going. We were a diverse group united by a common wish, not a death wish, exactly, but a desire to tickle death perhaps, and walk away giggling? Some had been traveling for months or would be; one person quit his job to make the trip. Many had seen Machu Picchu in Peru, or that's where they were headed next. The list of sights our group had seen was cut from “1000 Places To See Before You Die!”

And I felt like the odd man out.

I've done a bit of traveling in my few years on this planet, and I've seen some interesting places. I hadn't seen many of the exotic destinations listed by this group, but I don't think that's what I felt. In general, there was a small buzz after each person introduced him or herself, a bus wide resonance with where they had been, or where they were going. Then when I spoke, it was crickets.

What did I say?

“I came to Bolivia to see the boy I sponsor through Compassion International. He lives in Potosí and his 8th birthday is on Monday.”

Silence.

Big long pause.

“Okay then, well, how about you?” Paddy asked the guy behind me. He introduced himself. The buzz resumed.

I rode a rented mountain bike about 40 miles downhill on what used to be the World's Most Dangerous Road. It's one lane wide and super twisty with sheer drop offs. Drivers in trucks and buses and cars and carts used to careen, sometimes around the corners, sometimes off the sides. There's hardly any traffic now; the new road was completed in 2006. Today it's just a really long coasting trip on a bike. It was fun, it really was. I stayed in front or near the front the whole time, and now I can check that box off my list.




Just like all the people on the bus with whom I didn't really connect.

Am I going too far with this? I sensed a deep undercurrent of dissatisfaction in this group. There was always one more box to check, one more destination to visit. Crap, my list is not as long as hers! I wish I had more time to build a more impressive list! I've been to 30 countries, but he's been to 40! This is a different version of the American Dream. This funky little segment of society even scorns those poor people stuck in cubicle jobs, sweating to pay an overpriced mortgage on an upside down house, anchored in one place, trying to keep up with the Joneses.

Here's what I've discovered – only one thing in this life truly satisfies – giving myself sacrificially in the name of Jesus for the betterment of someone else.

Yamil, the boy I sponsor in Potosí, was the saddest child at the project. He walked with his head down, sat by himself when the other kids had play time, and did not even try to do his homework. His tutoras told me this in one of the letters I received from him.

But then he heard that he had a sponsor.

His whole world changed. He is engaged in school now. He smiles and laughs. He plays soccer enthusiastically. He's eating and growing and thriving!

Is there even a box to check for that?

I write him letters and he writes me. I send a little money each month. And I changed a kid's life? Really? That's not even a very big sacrifice! Especially with the reward of knowing him and seeing him grow. (He's at the age now where he's growing out in preparation for growing up – I'll see that too!)

I brought a soccer ball for his birthday. I brought candy. . . and toothbrushes and toothpaste. I brought balsa wood airplanes and towels and vitamins. We spent the day together at a dinosaur park (they're big in South America, it seems). We kicked his soccer ball around and ate lunch in the spinning tower restaurant. He smiled and laughed and sweat poured down the side of his face as he ran after the ball. He held my hand as we walked from the teeter totter to the big slide and then to go look at llamas. He just kept smiling!






Where are you looking for satisfaction? Are you waiting until you make just a little bit more money before you give some of it away? It's supposed to hurt a little! Don't give from your “extra” funds, money you'll never miss, but from that little stash you've reserved for that special treat you really deserve. You've worked so hard for it, after all! What difference could a few dollars possibly make?

$38 a month changed a kid's life, so you tell me what difference a few bucks could make.

It's about more than money, too. Give enough and pretty soon it won't be enough. You'll have to give yourself. Dare you take that risk!?

Now you know, but don't stop there. Jesus did not separate the sheep and the goats by how they felt about folks in prison, or hungry people, or the sick and hurting. He did not separate them by what they knew about poverty or sickness or being an outcast. He separated them by what they DID with their knowledge and feelings.

Will you be a sheep or a goat?